Mary and her sister Elizabeth Young Banks were mentioned in the 19 February 1792 will of her father Richard Banks. The will does not explicitly state that they were under age, but their mother, Elizabeth, was given the use of the whole estate to provide for herself and for them. If Elizabeth were to remarry, each child was to receive one third of the estate, and following her death one half. [Essex County, Virginia, Will Book 15, pages 11–12.]

On 22 January 1814, a division of the slaves belonging to the estate of Richard Banks, deceased, was made by Jno. Smith, Newman Brockenbrough, and W. Blake, to Elizabeth Banks, Polly Banks (also listed as Mary Banks), and Samuel Muse (who married Elizabeth Banks). On 29 January 1819, this was further acknowledged by Eliza S Banks and Wm L Waring. [Essex County, Virginia, Will Book 19, pages 31–32.]

Mary Waring was mentioned in the 22 November 1821 will of her mother, Elizabeth Smith Banks, proved 16 December 1822. [Essex County, Virginia, Will Book 19, pages 351–352.]

On 26 December 1822, Samuel Muse and William L. Waring agreed that Joseph Janey, William Smith and Kemp Gatewood were to value and divide the remaining property of Richard Banks, deceased, as they were the only two devisees in right of their wives, Mary Waring and Elizabeth Y. Muse. The division was returned to court on 18 August 1823. [Essex County, Virginia, Will Book 19, pages 390–391.]

On 14 January 1843, an appraisement of the Negroes bequeated to Mrs. Mary Waring by the last Will and Testament of Wm L Waring were made by Orville Jeffries and Joseph T. Tompkins. Includes Henry Bowler, George French, Maria, Eliza, Molly, Betty, Sarah, Joe, John Lowry, Lucy Ann, Robert Henry, Emalina, Caty, William Henry, Mary, Agnes, Alice, Polly, and Harry. An appraisal of the personal estate follows. On 15 April 1844, ordered to be recorded. [Essex County, Virginia, Will Book 25, pages 240–242.]